Dalton Roberts
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9-7-03
BEING VULNERABLE CAN BE HEALING

Inspirational writer Henri Nouwens became so burned out in doing good that he felt he was losing his own soul. A friend who ran a center for the mentally handicapped invited him to come there where he could be loved by people who had no expectations. He went and was healed.

He said, "Handicapped people didn't love or care for me because I write books. They don't know that. If they express love, it comes from God."

It reminded me of the time I wrote "A Little Christmas Every Day" and shot a video singing it with the chorus from a similar center in my hometown. When those kids hugged me, I felt I was being hugged by God. I honestly remember thinking that. We loved each other so much.

For two Christmas seasons, I went with them on some of their bookings and sang the song with them. When I arrived, each of them would hug me. I always felt a powerful spiritual current each time they would hug me. Just being around loving people who had no expectations of me was empowering.

Each Christmas since I performed with them has had a touch of sadness for me. I miss them. But there is a touch of gladness, too. I am so glad they asked me to write a special song for them and I have some treasured memories to re-enjoy each Christmas season.

My sister adopted a mentally handicapped boy and he has been a great blessing to all of us. Just today he told me, "I like you and I am gonna keep you a long, long time."

Nouwens said, "A spirituality of being with vulnerable people and of being vulnerable with them - that's the great journey." I am taking that journey and I plan to continue it a long, long time.
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