Return to
Main Page

 

Dalton Roberts
--My Sunday Journal

Return to Shopping Mini-Mall

Sunday Journal Archive

 

MY SUNDAY JOURNAL
By Dalton Roberts
IPS Feature
9-1-02

KNOW CONTENTMENT NOW

Montaigne tells about King Pyrrhus preparing to attack a country and his counselor asked why.
Pyrrhus said, "So I can then attack Gaul and Spain."

The counselor asked, "And then?"

"I will subdue Africa, then bring the whole world under my subjection."

"What then?"

"Well, then I will sit down and rest and find a great contentment."

The counselor said, "What hinder you from reaching your ultimate goal of contentment right now? Just sitting down now, resting and finding contentment and sparing yourself all the labor and stress and danger?"

Why is it we feel life's battles must all be fought and won before we can be satisfied? This instant you can settle yourself into a state of calmness without the whole world being under your control. Once we gain control, we must maintain control and the maintaining is as stressful as the gaining.

Every day we try to seize control over our little world with its people and issues is a day we miss in directing our own soul into deep inner peace. We will not be productive in any good endeavor without peace. Control is not where the power is. Its in peace.

YET, DO SOMETHING

One of my dearest friends retired and when I asked if he was doing a project he had often talked of doing once he retired, he said "I have discovered the pleasure of doing nothing."

I discovered he had been doing something. A little fun game. We are not made to do nothing.

We are built for action. We have legs to get up and go. We have arms to reach and touch things that interest us. We have a brain that cannot be turned off. It can only be directed and the only way to direct it is to find things it likes to think about.

Every brain needs a project, even if it's only finding new trails to walk, new ways to relax, people to enjoy or whatever.

All we need to do to find happiness and fulfillment is to let our brain tell us what it wants to do, and set the rest of our body to doing it.

It's not a matter of mind control. It's listening to our mind. Tuning into our likes and loves and desires and dreams.

Don't be constantly talking to your brain, giving it orders, bossing it around. It's your friend. Listen to it.